Jacob, he was trying to kill his younger brother, so Jacob had to escape from his hometown. Otherwise he might not have wanted to leave his hometown. Why would he want to leave his hometown in which all his friends and family lived? It was God’s plan. He forced Jacob to leave his hometown.
When Jacob stayed at his uncle’ home, he became close with his uncle’s daughters. That was also the Will of God - to make Jacob do his Will to make a great nation. God did not concern about what Jacob might have wanted for himself, because the plan of God was more important.
When Jacob was on his way to his uncle’s house, he experienced something. One day, he stopped for the night at a certain plane. He put one stone there and laid down to rest his head on it. He had a dream in which he saw a stairway rising from the earth, with its top reaching heaven, and the angels of God ascending and descending it.
He saw God standing there, saying, “I am the LORD, the God of your grandfather Abraham and the God of your father Isaac. I will give you and your descendants the land on which you are lying. Your descendants will be like the dust